12 SITUATIONS · FEAR + AVOIDANCE · ABOUT 4 MINUTES

Rehearsing the phone call three times before you make it?

Social anxiety is more than shyness. It's a strong fear of being judged that leads people to avoid everyday situations. Rate 12 of them for fear and avoidance, and get a step-by-step plan built from your answers. No sign-up, nothing saved.

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5Give a five-minute talk
4Go to a party for an hour
3Speak once in a meeting
2Make a short phone call
1Ask a shop assistant a question
An exposure ladder: start at the bottom

Over the past month, in each situation…

0 of 12 rated
HOW ANXIOUS DO YOU FEEL?HOW OFTEN DO YOU AVOID IT?
Calling someone you don't know well
Speaking up in a meeting or class
Eating or drinking while others watch
Talking to someone you find attractive
Being the centre of attention
Giving a short presentation
Going to a party where you know few people
Disagreeing with someone you don't know well
Returning something to a shop
Making small talk with a colleague or neighbour
Walking into a room where people are already seated
Being watched while you work or write

What social anxiety is, in short

Social anxiety disorder is an intense, lasting fear of situations where you might be watched or judged, out of proportion to the real risk. People either avoid those situations or endure them with strong distress, and it gets in the way of work, study or relationships.

Shyness is a personality trait; social anxiety disorder is a treatable condition that usually lasts six months or more. This test uses a fear-and-avoidance format common in clinical scales, with our own situations, so the bands are a rough guide rather than a diagnosis.

By What's Your IQ · Reviewed 4 Oct 2026
Format
12 situations × fear (0–3) and avoidance (0–3)
Score
0–72; guide bands at 20 and 40
How common
About 12% of US adults at some point in life
Treatment
Individual CBT is recommended first
WHY IT KEEPS GOING

What feels like protection keeps the fear alive

The cognitive model of social anxiety describes a loop. Click each step to see how it feeds the next, and where the loop can be broken.

WHAT HAPPENSYou rehearse lines, avoid eye contact, hold a drink to hide shaking or leave early.
BREAK ITDrop one safety behaviour at a time. They feel protective but stop you learning that you'd cope without them.
12%of US adults have social anxiety disorder at some pointThat makes it one of the most common anxiety disorders. It usually starts in the early teenage years, and many people wait more than a decade before seeking help.1
1995The cognitive model. Clark and Wells described how self-focused attention and safety behaviours keep social fear going, the loop above.2
2005How common. The US National Comorbidity Survey Replication estimated lifetime prevalence at about 12.1%.1
2013Treatment guidance. NICE in the UK recommended individual CBT built on this model as the first treatment for adults.3
2014 · metaWhat works best. A network meta-analysis of over 100 trials found individual CBT had the strongest evidence among psychological treatments.4
  1. Kessler, R. C., Berglund, P., Demler, O., Jin, R., Merikangas, K. R., & Walters, E. E. (2005). Lifetime prevalence and age-of-onset distributions of DSM-IV disorders in the National Comorbidity Survey Replication. Archives of General Psychiatry, 62(6), 593–602.
  2. Clark, D. M., & Wells, A. (1995). A cognitive model of social phobia. In R. G. Heimberg et al. (Eds.), Social phobia: Diagnosis, assessment, and treatment (pp. 69–93). Guilford.
  3. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. (2013). Social anxiety disorder: Recognition, assessment and treatment (CG159).
  4. Mayo-Wilson, E., et al. (2014). Psychological and pharmacological interventions for social anxiety disorder in adults. The Lancet Psychiatry, 1(5), 368–376.

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