What Are Reflexive Verbs?

Reflexive verbs are verbs where the subject and the object refer to the same person or thing. In German, this means the action of the verb is performed on oneself. Reflexive verbs always use a reflexive pronoun that corresponds to the subject.

For example, in English: "I wash myself." In German, this is expressed with reflexive verbs and pronouns.

Ich wasche mich.

Ish vah-sheh mikh.

I wash myself.

Reflexive verbs in German are very common, especially when talking about daily routines, emotions, and body care.

Reflexive Pronouns in German

Reflexive pronouns are used with reflexive verbs to indicate that the subject performs the action on itself. Here is the list of reflexive pronouns in the accusative case, which is the most common case for reflexive verbs:

PersonReflexive Pronoun (Accusative)
ich (I)mich
du (you, singular informal)dich
er/sie/es (he/she/it)sich
wir (we)uns
ihr (you, plural informal)euch
sie/Sie (they/you formal)sich

These pronouns are placed after the verb or in the appropriate position in the sentence, depending on word order rules.

Common Reflexive Verbs

Many German verbs can be used reflexively. Here are some of the most common reflexive verbs and their meanings:

  • sich waschen – to wash oneself
  • sich anziehen – to dress oneself
  • sich freuen – to be happy (about something)
  • sich setzen – to sit down
  • sich erinnern – to remember
  • sich fühlen – to feel
  • sich interessieren – to be interested

Er freut sich auf das Wochenende.

Er froyt zikh owf das voh-chen-en-deh.

He is looking forward to the weekend.

Wir ziehen uns warm an.

Veer tseen enz varm an.

We dress warmly.

Conjugation of Reflexive Verbs

Reflexive verbs are conjugated like regular verbs, but always require a reflexive pronoun. Below is the conjugation of the verb sich waschen (to wash oneself) in the present tense:

PersonVerb FormReflexive PronounExample
ichwaschemichIch wasche mich.
duwäschstdichDu wäschst dich.
er/sie/eswäschtsichEr wäscht sich.
wirwaschenunsWir waschen uns.
ihrwaschteuchIhr wascht euch.
sie/SiewaschensichSie waschen sich.

Reflexive Verbs with Accusative or Dative

Most reflexive verbs use accusative reflexive pronouns, but some require dative pronouns depending on the verb and meaning. The difference affects how the sentence is understood.

For example, sich die Hände waschen (to wash one's hands) uses a dative pronoun because the hands are the direct object:

Ich wasche mir die Hände.

Ish vah-sheh meer dee hen-duh.

I wash my hands.

Here, mir is the dative reflexive pronoun, indicating "to myself." The direct object is die Hände.

Compare this with the accusative example:

Ich wasche mich.

Ish vah-sheh mikh.

I wash myself.

It is important to learn which verbs take which case with reflexive pronouns.

Sentence Structure with Reflexive Verbs

In German main clauses, the conjugated reflexive verb usually occupies the second position, and the reflexive pronoun comes immediately after the verb or later depending on sentence complexity.

Er zieht sich an.

Er tseet zikh an.

He dresses himself.

In subordinate clauses or questions, the reflexive pronoun position may change:

Weißt du, ob sie sich erinnert?

Vyst doo, ob zee zikh er-in-ert?

Do you know if she remembers?

Remember that the reflexive pronoun agrees with the subject in person and number.

Practice Examples

Try to identify the reflexive pronoun and verb in each sentence and translate them:

Du freust dich über das Geschenk.

Doo froyst dikh oo-ber das ge-shenk.

You are happy about the gift.

Wir setzen uns auf die Bank.

Veer zet-sen uns owf dee bank.

We sit down on the bench.

Sie interessiert sich für Musik.

Zee in-ter-es-irt zikh füer moo-zeek.

She is interested in music.

Practice conjugating reflexive verbs and using the correct reflexive pronouns regularly to build confidence.

Tips for Remembering Rules

  • Memorize reflexive pronouns by heart, focusing first on accusative forms.
  • Learn common reflexive verbs in context rather than isolated lists.
  • Pay attention to verbs that require dative reflexive pronouns and practice them with objects.
  • Practice speaking and writing sentences using reflexive verbs to internalize sentence structure.
  • Use flashcards with verbs and their reflexive forms to improve recall.
  • Listen to native speakers and note how reflexive verbs are used in everyday speech.

Consistent exposure and practice are key to mastering reflexive verbs in German.